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Kim Jeongun is a doctor of cultural psychology. He's invited to give a lecture on couples and the way he gives his lecture is really interesting. He made it funny but truthful. A very interesting episode that we can learn a lot from, specially for couples. =)
First he talked about how important a touch is. From birth until we grow old, everybody needs to be touched. It is only when we are touched that we feel alive. 2nd is to share emotions. We see this through copying, when we smile, we get a smile back. But surprisingly, he said men are trained to disrupt the copying process which is why it's more difficult for them to express how they feel.
He gave 2 tips to good communication. 1st is to take the other person's perspective. Talk to yourself to find what the other side of you will say. 2nd is ritual. It's like a habit that makes you happy. And finally, you have to know your reason for living. Humans live to praise and be praised.
Win Win - Episode 65 (052411 - original air date) w/ English subtitles
credits: boosaysharingiscaring.com
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Kim Jeongun is a doctor of cultural psychology. He's invited to give a lecture on couples and the way he gives his lecture is really interesting. He made it funny but truthful. A very interesting episode that we can learn a lot from, specially for couples. =)
First he talked about how important a touch is. From birth until we grow old, everybody needs to be touched. It is only when we are touched that we feel alive. 2nd is to share emotions. We see this through copying, when we smile, we get a smile back. But surprisingly, he said men are trained to disrupt the copying process which is why it's more difficult for them to express how they feel.
He gave 2 tips to good communication. 1st is to take the other person's perspective. Talk to yourself to find what the other side of you will say. 2nd is ritual. It's like a habit that makes you happy. And finally, you have to know your reason for living. Humans live to praise and be praised.
Win Win - Episode 65 (052411 - original air date) w/ English subtitles
credits: boosaysharingiscaring.com
*note: you have to register in boo's site to view the post.
Kim Jeongun is a doctor of cultural psychology. He's invited to give a lecture on couples and the way he gives his lecture is really interesting. He made it funny but truthful. A very interesting episode that we can learn a lot from, specially for couples. =)
First he talked about how important a touch is. From birth until we grow old, everybody needs to be touched. It is only when we are touched that we feel alive. 2nd is to share emotions. We see this through copying, when we smile, we get a smile back. But surprisingly, he said men are trained to disrupt the copying process which is why it's more difficult for them to express how they feel.
He gave 2 tips to good communication. 1st is to take the other person's perspective. Talk to yourself to find what the other side of you will say. 2nd is ritual. It's like a habit that makes you happy. And finally, you have to know your reason for living. Humans live to praise and be praised.
Win Win - Episode 65 (052411 - original air date) w/ English subtitles
credits: boosaysharingiscaring.com
*note: you have to register in boo's site to view the post.
